After reading several of your responses to other writers, I’m quite apprehensive as to how to further clarify because it seems like no matter what anyone has said in a response to your comments, somehow it gets twisted and then used against them. Not sure if I’m making sense. I don’t think that finding “words” that you said is really the way to go about here. Just the sentiment is that it’s hard to move forward in discussions with finger pointing and nit-picking. You seem to be quite informed and open minded from your responses. But do you think there is a way to move beyond the “fine print” and look at the bigger picture of what people are trying to explain to you from their own experience? Is there a way to move beyond focusing on one word or reading into it or assuming and just understand the sentiment of what they are saying?